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Ran's avatar

A couple of weeks ago I had lunch with a close friend. We come from very different backgrounds. He grew up - up North. I grew up here. He is black and I am white. He is a self-made physician and one of the smartest, most driven people know. Our boys played years of competitive soccer together, before heading off to college. He sits on the board of a very large, very renowned University. His 2nd son attends this University. His politics are quite liberal and we do not agree "politically" on a lot of things. During the election process and after Biden was sworn in, he stayed angry. It got so bad that our weekly phone calls dropped to monthly. During that process, I kept pointing out to him some corrections of what was being reported and kept saying "turn the news off".

Back to last week. We were catching up on some things, enjoying a nice lunch, when he just stopped. He looked at me and said, "I took your advice. I turned off the news and I rarely get on Facebook. And when I do, I avoid any of the political stuff. I did it about a month ago. It took about a week, but I started feeling so much better. I realize that I cannot change the world and that there is a lot of misinformation out there on both sides. So I'm going to take care of my family and friends."

He isn't changing. He still is still on the board (for now) of a large University. He is still healing people, he is still quietly making contributions to causes that are important to him. But he doesn't watch the news anymore and he is a much-much happier person.

And I'm happy, because I got a dear friend back... Turn it off folks, it will only make you miserable.

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CMJs Marmee's avatar

My head is spinning. But that's the goal of the enemy of our souls.

One thing we know: God is not the author of confusion (1 Corinthians 14:33). That leaves the usual suspects....

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