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Ran's avatar

My youngest son graduated college 5 years ago. He landed a job right out of college at a suburban Atlanta high school that is about 60% AA, 25% white and 15% hispanic. Most of the football coaching staff was AA and a little short on staff. So my son was handed the JV job with one other coach and was the WR and special teams coach. In my house, the 'N' word is considered worse than a swear word (minus the obvious one). It just isn't used in any context - period. One of the first rules he implemented was "use the N word and you run". Now you need to understand that the "N" word between black folk (especially the young) is just slang.

But at 22, my son understood the history of the word, and the purpose of using the word and he would have none of it. He gained the respect of the kids rather quickly for many reasons, including his insistence of not using this word. This carried over into P.E. classes and in the Spring, his soccer team.

I told you that to also tell you this. When the African American coaches begin to push for the word not to get used, they received push back from the same kids. It was their way of saying, we do this because my son's heart was in the right place, he just did not understand the culture. But they expected AA coaches to understand. So the work after this was to get these kids to understand the history of the word. It impacted some of the kids, it did not impact others.

The "N" word does NOT belong in society. Black, white, conservative or liberal. The history and purpose of the word is undeniable. To now be used so prevalently in the AA community sends the wrong message - period. And the fact that the liberal press is once again holding two standards when the word is used, only weakens the efforts of those, who truly would like for people to understand what an atrocious word this is, not belonging in our language in any context.

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Rick Williamson's avatar

The Left loves standards so much they have two sets... one for them and a completely different set for everyone else.

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