Contrarianism has run amok in the United States. It is a byproduct of moving into post-modernity. Instead of focusing on what is true, we now all focus on our personal truths with no regard to if it is actually true. If we believe it is true, then by God in Heaven it is true!
Combine that with our increasing divisions as a society and many people’s truth is now based on being exactly opposite their opposing tribe. Everyone prides themselves on their individual thought and really their thoughts are not individual but based on tribal consent. No one actually sees it that way, but it is actually that way. People gauge what they think is true based on what everyone else in their tribe says is true and they decide they too have, independently and uniquely, arrived at the exact same conclusion of what is true.
Each person, a master of his own destiny, does not even realize he is in a herd. One could reasonably conclude that if buffalo or lemmings could speak, each one would claim it chose to go in that direction all by themselves — the direction that literally every member of the herd is going. There is, after all, safety in numbers and if everyone else in the herd is headed in a direction, you will probably head that way too.
The United States is now fairly evenly divided and no one trusts institutions. The media has destroyed its own credibility. The bureaucracy can be bullied by special interests. People are too cynical to trust politicians. So they trust their friends and a community that each has increasingly built online or through political interaction to look and think just like themselves. The result is now a handful of groups that claim independent thought, expert input, political power at different levels, and remarkably stake out positions to be exactly opposite the other.
The actual independent thinker tends to be increasingly isolated and, as everyone wants to belong to a community, often must make compromises to fit in. But most people do not want to ride in turbulent seas so they go along to get along within their tribe. That is an important distinction because there are those, on both sides of the political aisle, who rock the boat. If your tribe is committed to rocking the boat, calm seas is your turbulence.
Unfortunately for the country, this has left us largely without good ideas and sound public policy. Each tribe wishes to be contrary to the other tribe. Not too long ago, if one of America’s political tribes staked out position X, the other tribe most assuredly would stake out X+1 or Y. In other words, they would call for something more fully than the other side or different from the other side claiming their different way was a better way.
Now, each side has chosen to be an opposite. Instead of pushing Y to challenge X, the opposing tribe pushes -X, the exact opposite. One side has embraced vaccines, so the other side refuses to get them. When Donald Trump was President of the United States, Democrats cast doubt and aspersions on the vaccine and operation warp speed. As soon as Joe Biden became President, Trump supporters became the loudest skeptics of the vaccine.
As Republicans showed sound science that children are not the spreaders of COVID and should be able to go to school without masks, Democrats rushed to do the exact opposite and insist on masks for children even outside. What one side advocates, the other side must do the exact opposite. There can be no nuance and damn the person who charts a middle path or an alternate path.
This will not last. X+-X equals X-X, which equals zero. Both sides cancel each other out. It is basic math. The side that ultimately wins is going to be the side that charts a different path, not a contrary path. We need some alternatives now. Both sides seem to be out of any idea except whatever one side is for, the other is against. That provides no path forward for any of us.
Tribalism will be the downfall of this country. I have removed myself from my "tribe," still a Republican but I'm not buying into some of the insane conspiracy theories of the "tribe." And sure as hell not buying into the equally (or more) insane fantasies of the "progressive" left. I will filter thru the crap on both sides and decide for myself.
The "actual independent thinker" is indeed isolated. I know, because I am one of them.
At the risk of dragging politics (again and again) into the public discussion, I must say that this gulf was not nearly as wide, nor as deep, before the the Loser absconded the GOP and took control of the reigns . . . and then, after being lawfully defeated, refused to take his ball and go home.
And this is why the most important development toward American stability (if such a thing still exists) is the assurance that the Loser will not be in the white house again.
Donald did not know how to talk to Americans. He spoke only to his tribe.
We need a President who will unite us. Joe Biden is trying to do that, by keeping his finger in the dyke to prevent woke leftism from taking over the Dem party and the .gov.
And he needs a little help in that effort.
The best thing that Republicans can do now is forget the trumpian tribe, get back to middle-of-the road governance, and begin searching the horizon for the statesman or businessman who is best equipped to defeat Biden.
This trumpian-cursed tribal mentality has got to go if this country is to remain the "United" States of America.
God bless America!